Sex Advice for Seniors
Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast
Episode 112: Writing Erotica for the Oldies
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Episode 112: Writing Erotica for the Oldies

In conversation with erotic and romance novelist Stella Fosse,

I’ve been looking forward to this conversation for a couple of months, since coming across Stella Fosse on Substack. A rarity in the world of romance and erotic writing, Stella has a unique perspective, writing for and about older adults. We discuss the challenges and biases in the publishing industry, the importance of representation, and the evolving landscape of self-publishing.

Stella shares her journey into writing, the differences between erotica and romance, and the significance of community and social media in building an audience. Our conversation highlights the joy of writing as a form of play and the potential for older characters to inspire readers.

Takeaways

  • The publishing industry often favours younger characters in romance and erotica.

  • Older women writing erotica can challenge societal norms and stereotypes.

  • Self-publishing has opened new avenues for authors to share their work.

  • Erotica focuses on sexuality, while romance centres on character development and relationships.

  • Diversity in romance writing is still a work in progress.

  • Marketing for indie authors requires a different approach than traditional publishing.

  • Social media is crucial for building an audience and credibility.

  • Writing can be a playful exploration of fantasies and desires.

  • Community support among writers enhances the creative process.

  • Older characters in romance can provide relatable role models for readers.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Erotic Writing for Older Audiences

02:54 The Journey into Writing Erotica

05:49 Breaking Age Stereotypes in Romance

09:06 The Evolution of Publishing and Self-Publishing

12:10 Understanding the Differences: Erotica vs. Romance

14:54 Diversity and Representation in Romance Writing

17:52 Marketing Strategies for Indie Authors

21:02 The Role of Social Media in Building an Audience

24:04 The Creative Process of Writing Erotica

27:06 Exploring Fantasies Through Writing

29:59 The Importance of Community in Writing

33:01 Conclusion and Future Aspirations

Website:  www.stellafosse.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StellaFosseAuthor/
Twitter: stellafosse
LinkedIn:  www.linkedin.com/in/stellafosse
Instagram:  @stella.fosse

Check out Stella’s Books and Stories:
https://stellafosse.com/stella-fosses-books-stories/

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Sex Advice for Seniors
Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast
Everything you need to know to have a thriving, nourishing sex life as you age—whatever that means for you. Suzanne Noble is over sixty, sexually experienced and honest. She discusses her own experience and—as a woman in her sixties—brings years of sex and intimacy to reflect on in a witty, open and enthusiastic way. The series is dedicated to helping older people find their way to a healthy and enjoyable sex life. Whether you are just starting out with a new partner or continuing with an old one, there's sure to be something new here for you.