My partner of 15 years and I have always lived apart. For us that means, sharing the same building but having two different apartments in that lovely building. We come and go into each others spaces, more like two wings of a larger house. We love it. Being able to take space when needed, to choose to share the same bed rather than being choiceless. To bring our best energy to each other, and to enjoy the very important autonomy that keeps relationships fresh and prioritized.
My partner of 15 years and I have always lived apart. For us that means, sharing the same building but having two different apartments in that lovely building. We come and go into each others spaces, more like two wings of a larger house. We love it. Being able to take space when needed, to choose to share the same bed rather than being choiceless. To bring our best energy to each other, and to enjoy the very important autonomy that keeps relationships fresh and prioritized.