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Oh, Suzanne, the gal I mentioned earier is "Sherry McGuinn" and her Posts on Sex are on "Sherry Raw", here on Substack and also on Medium.com. Just in case you didn't know about her, she's great, just like you! Same subject, sex for elders, men and women. Lmk what you think! Did you already know about her?

PS: (I'm an lifelong anglophile! Formerly married to two Englishmen! here in the States, but on the mainland). Now I'm in RURAL Hawaii, NOT Honolulu, on Oahu, NOT Maui, but on another island, 77, recent widow; after 20 years of forced celibacy due to husband's brain cancer, I'm now single. Wanting sex in the worst way but IF there are unmarried older men here I sure have not seen nor met even ONE or ANY of them. No Senior Center even! Every man I see or meet is 25 years younger and not looking for an old broad! They're looking for younger women. Or if correct age they're already married! No nightlife here to speak of; and at the couple of places there is, no older men are out looking! I'm stuck here for next 2 years at least. Looked at two local dating sites for Elders-the sites, located on the mainland, can't figure out who is on what island and constantly show men NOT even on my island! They have NO clue. No ferry, only commercial flights, not cheap. So far neither site has shown anyone I would want to meet anyway. Then the very long distances and long, complicated travel issues kick in. Beyond going crazy over this. Been told I'm youthful ( and look 60) not overweight, and pretty? So why is this so hard? Any ideas? Not into church scene. Having erotic dreams making things worse! Nurse!!! ;>)

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